This is a worthwhile consideration for all of us. I do think it's helpful for your career development, socialization, skill and salary advancement, to spend some time in the "Capitol" of SV. But leaving before it burns you out is also something to keep in mind.
I actually moved here not if my own accord, but following my spouse (who isn't in a tech field). Luckily her career is very stable, but even with 2 fat incomes, the cost-benefit ratio of SV life is a difficult proposition.
There are lots of good jobs to be had in smaller markets, and with less douchery comes a bit more humanity and respect for people and their skills.
I actually moved here not if my own accord, but following my spouse (who isn't in a tech field). Luckily her career is very stable, but even with 2 fat incomes, the cost-benefit ratio of SV life is a difficult proposition.
There are lots of good jobs to be had in smaller markets, and with less douchery comes a bit more humanity and respect for people and their skills.