That sucks, I'm sorry to hear that, but I'll make an observation and you can take it or leave it: You didn't properly evaluate their position and what is expected of them. They are held to a certain standard they may personally disagree with but their careers are on the line. Students have a hard time realizing this.
Apropos is Holmes's psychatrist over in Aurora, Co.
School faculty have to worry about their own little mini-9/11's every day that a kid walks in worried about a problem, because how would they ever be able to show their faces to the parents again if that worried kid ended being the 1/10,000 kid that would end up bring violence to their school, and the school had done nothing?