SF, every time I visit. LA, often when I visit. LV, when I don't feel like driving. SD, when I'm there visiting, NYC which admittedly has been several years, Chicago metro area, which admittedly is the best of all of them and still very much has all of the problems I have detailed and aside from traveling outside of the city I much prefer a cab or a car, and several places in mexico, touristy and not touristy, which weren't markedly better or worse than american examples.
That leads me to think these problems are endemic, and you, yourself, are either really lucky, or just used to the discomfort after so much time. You should treat yourself to some perspective, go out and take an uber home, then ask yourself if it was better.
> That leads me to think these problems are endemic, and you, yourself, are either really lucky, or just used to the discomfort after so much time. You should treat yourself to some perspective, go out and take an uber home, then ask yourself if it was better.
Your replies lead me to think that you, yourself, are either really sheltered, or just used to the privilege of not having to interact with people you feel like are "below" you. I suggest you go outside and touch some grass or get your hands a little dirty.
I have used Uber in all the places you mentioned as well as transit. I can tell you that I would rather spend $4 on a 1 hour transit ride than $25 on a 40 minute Uber literally everywhere. That will be the typical travel times in NYC, Toronto, LV, SF, Chicago, Tokyo, London etc. for both Uber and transit to go anywhere that's worth taking an Uber for.
Unless I'm wasted out of my mind at 3am or in an unfamiliar area or not in a state to take transit home or the Uber ride is exceptionally cheaper than normal Ubers or faster than transit I will choose the cheaper public transit every time.
I've been working since I was 12 1/2 (under the table summer gigs, eventually payrolled at 15 with a work permit, zero free summers in highschool), parents were on government assistance, declared bankruptcy twice, I went to public schools where I was the victim of overt acts of violence due to the color of my skin on multiple occasions, parent's had their house foreclosed on and I squatted there for 9 months before I got evicted and had to couch surf, my first car was a van with no door locks and a carburetor with a worn out accelerator pump and the only gauge that worked was oil pressure. I kept a 5 gallon jerry can in the back because I never really knew if I was going to run out of gas.
In my life I've been mugged 3x, stabbed once, spat on several times (only spat on while riding the bus funny enough), had a full coke thrown at me while I was riding my bike to walmart (which was worse than being stabbed because I wasn't stabbed that bad and being sticky really sucked). I've been hassled by the cops (because that van was super sketchy looking) countless times, never arrested because I was never doing anything wrong, but no less unpleasant having to put your car back together on the side of the road because you look like you're driving a drug dealer van (which, I did tbh).
These days I volunteer at the local food bank, handing food and diapers and sanitary products who are in need of them. It keeps me grounded, because some of those people are fantastic humans, the real salt of the earth, most are regular folks like you and I, and some are remarkably unpleasant, but I get that they're havin a bad time and that it's not really personal (though the guy who told me I looked like an "r-slured cross between drake and mr bean" because we were out of eggs kinda stung, not gonna lie). I highly recommend doing that sort of thing, those places all need extra help, even if it's just a few hours, and they mostly have zero ways to reach out and get it.
As to where this privilege, where this shelter is that you speak of comes from? That's a mystery to me, I fought to get where I am, I've existed on the good will of others, I've been hungry and dirty, and tired and quasi homeless. I remember where I came from, I know how bad things can get and how much better they are now. My friend, if I were to touch more grass, I would have to become grass itself first.
In terms of time, if 1hr transit = 40min uber, you're spending 21 bucks for 20 minutes of time, so, 63 bucks an hour. Is your time worth less than that or more than that? And that's valuing safety and comfort at $0, which is probably unfair, but harder to quantify. Personally, I'm at a point where I can afford the extra 21 bucks, so I just uber. I also drop like 300 bucks a month on a car, plus gas, including insurance, but timewise, if I didn't I'd be valuing myself somewheres around 18 bucks an hour with how my commute works out with public transport. Haven't been paid that low in years now, no plan on going back. That and, it has the added benefit of being able to go anywhere, anytime, without any real restrictions. Zero public transport options are like that.
But hey, maybe I'm wrong and sitting on an uncomfortable plastic seat for hours every day, getting hassled, maybe stabbed, maybe spat on, would be good for me, doesn't sound like it though.
That leads me to think these problems are endemic, and you, yourself, are either really lucky, or just used to the discomfort after so much time. You should treat yourself to some perspective, go out and take an uber home, then ask yourself if it was better.